Have you ever experienced having social anxiety?
This is what Geoffrey Setiawan went through growing up.
He grew up in a traditional household where nobody taught him about human connection.
This led to an identity crisis because no one was able to relate to him and this is why he felt angry towards other people.
Funny enough, this became his motivation, which led him to become a successful entrepreneur and very popular YouTuber where he gives tips to help men how to succeed in any type of relationship.
Timestamps
- 00:00 - Videogram
- 00:55 - Introduction
- 01:16 - Geoffrey introduces himself
- 01:55 - His definition of intuition and his intuitive signals
- 08:38 - Him stone-walling people
- 10:50 - The challenge in his social life
- 12:49 - His Dad wanted him to play professional golf
- 14:39 - Him feeling angry towards people, which motivated him
- 17:06 - Growing up with intense social anxiety
- 18:32 - Learning how to survive in business
- 19:08 - How the lack of the skills and mindset in relationships affects your life
- 21:35 - Telling his clients why there is no need to set boundaries
- 24:31 - The strength of the research is the strength in numbers
- 24:44 - Relationships with people can't be based on research
- 28:59 - His first two years in the entrepreneurship journey
- 29:42 - The difference between a good course and a bad course
- 34:20 - Taking a YouTube framework that saw his YouTube engagement skyrocket
- 38:19 - The dangers of falling back into an extrinsic motivation mindset
- 43:12 - Turning down 90% of his applicants
- 45:34 - Deciding to invest in the right mentors
- 46:34 - The three criteria in a mentor he chose to work with
- 49:17 - Trusting his YouTube mentor, Sunny Lenarduzzi, and people trusting him
- 53:09 - Untrustworthy people selling courses on YouTube
- 55:18 - His opinion on people not taking steps to change
- 57:29 - Filtering his relationships
- 01:01:32 - Being overjoyed in seeing failures as learnings
- 01:02:37 - Contacting Geoffrey
- 01:03:29 - Conclusion
