How Do You Walk Away From Relationships That Hold You Back?

Even though you were so wrapped up in living your life through the values and opinions of others, your intuition continues to stand by your side.

My Intuitionology project was started to have you move away from relationships that no longer move your life forward, putting the focus back on discovering your unique set of intuitive signals that takes under 14 seconds to filter your relationships so that you only surround yourself with those who will give you the confidence to make the right decisions that lead you to success in every area of your life.

This may sound simple, it takes time, effort, and action.

Let’s start with time.

You need to take the time to evaluate your relationships to make sure that you leave behind those whose values and opinions you are used to paying attention to so that you only allow those into your life who are a foundation of support when living your life on your own terms.

If you don’t take this time, you will continue to meander in life, wondering why you are not able to make the decisions that move your life forward.

Next is effort.

You need to find out what YOUR values are and how you want to show up in the different areas of your life.

This is where your intuitive signals play a VERY important role because they are going to help you find out whether a value is one that you truly embrace or if it is being influenced by one or more of your relationships.

This is how you start to give yourself permission to live that area of your life on your own terms.

This may be scary because this may be one of the first times you are in the driver’s seat, but because your intuition is right there beside you, that fear is actually your best friend.

And finally, there is action.

Nothing will happen if you don’t actually take the steps to leave behind relationships so that you are able to live your life through YOUR values.

This does not mean that you need to completely cut people out of your life unless that is what your intuition is telling you that you need to do.

All you are doing is making sure that they don’t move you away from living your life on your own terms.

It may seem hard at first because of the emotional attachments you may have, but if you don’t make your move, you start to waste time in your life living through the values of others, which was what happened to international keynote speaker Vinh Giang.

It seemed like Vinh’s life was on fire, speaking on over 80 stages around the world to over 100,000 people a year, helping them improve their lives.

But his intuition knew that his life looked good to everyone else, except him.

This was when he took the time to find out why he was not living a life being happy on the inside, going to New Zealand to figure things out, and taking the effort to strip away the values he lived because of other people to find out what HIS values were.

He thought this would be uplifting, cathartic, and freeing.

But this was frightening and scary because, for the first time in his life, he gave himself permission to live his life on his own terms.

After finally, it was time for him to take action, which is where everything fell apart for him, wasting 6 months of his life going back to the same old way of doing things.